about me 

Meet Jordan Crosby

Portrait of a man with short dark hair wearing glasses and a blue shirt, resting his chin on his hand and looking serious.

My name is Jordan, and my practice is dedicated to help people learn how to:

  • regulate their emotions

  • stop behaviors that may be harming them

  • process their trauma

  • improve their relationships

  • truly know (and love) themselves

  • create a life worth living

I will do all of this in a practice that authentically validates and fully accepts my clients for exactly who they are and pushes them to be who they want to be.

What do I stand for?

I approach therapy through an intersectional lens, grounded in the belief that all aspects of our identities (race, gender, sexuality, class, ability, and beyond) shape our access to resources, opportunities, and systems of support. I recognize that many communities, particularly those holding marginalized identities, have historically and presently faced both overt and subtle barriers to basic needs like healthcare, education, and economic stability.

Much of my academic and professional work has centered on supporting the LGBTQ+ community, especially Queer and Trans People of Color and those living in poverty in rural Appalachia. Through this work, I’ve witnessed the resilience of these communities as well as the systemic challenges they continue to face.

While I don’t incorporate religious views into my own clinical framework, I deeply value when clients bring their own religious, spiritual, or non-religious beliefs into the room. Your worldview is a meaningful part of your healing journey, and I want our work together to reflect that.

I celebrate the beauty and diversity of gender and sexuality in all its forms. I’ve had the honor of working with openly Queer individuals, folks who are closeted, sex workers, kinky and polyamorous individuals, those navigating STI diagnoses, furries, therians, and the partners or families of all these communities. In fact, I began this work right across the street from one of the largest conversion therapy empires in the world. That empire has since crumbled (good riddance)… and the affirming work I’ve been a part of continues stronger than ever.

I also want to name the privilege I hold. I know that many people don’t have access to the resources and support I do, and that disparity is something I carry with both anger and humility. I can’t undo systemic injustice alone, but I can use my role to offer a hand, open a door, and create spaces where people feel seen and supported.

If you're ever curious about my values or how they show up in our work, I always welcome those questions. Therapy should feel like a space where you don’t have to wonder where your therapist stands.

What’s my training?

Education:

Masters of Marriage and Family Therapy from Converse University in Spartanburg, SC (2020)

Bachelor of Arts in English and Spanish from Wofford College in Spartanburg, SC (2016)

Studied Spanish Philology and Gender/ Sexuality Studies at the University of Alicante in Alicante, Spain

Licenses:

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in South Carolina (2021- present), North Carolina (2024- present), and Washington State (2025- present).

Trainings:

Intensive Dialectical Behavior Therapy Training through Behavioral Tech (2020)

Intensive Cognitive Processing Therapy Training with Dr. Candice Monson (2024)

Intensive Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy with Personal Transformation Institute (2025)

Also trained in Gottman Method and Schema Therapy

What’s my vibe?

So, this is tough question to answer for myself, but I’m going to give it a try.

I generally am described as being warm and approachable when I’m doing therapy. While I take my commitment to my clients seriously, I try to not take myself or life too seriously.

While other therapists are quoting poets and philosophers, I’m probably quoting Taylor Swift, Spongebob, or Vines from 2013.

I know everyone says this, but I really do love all kinds of music and love going to concerts. Noah Kahan and Hozier are two people I really want to see live. Paul McCartney, Kasey Musgraves, and, of course, Taylor Swift are some of my favorite artists I’ve already seen.

Speaking of music, I love to play and write music on the piano. I played music growing up, and started taking lessons on piano when I turned 30.

The mountains are my happy place, and one of my favorite parts of now living in the PNW is being able to see beautiful mountains when I look out my window!

Nature photography is one of my other passions. I love to go to the national parks and just take in all of the wonderful scenes!